Learn to Be Your Own Best Friend

BE your own best friend...

BE your own best friend...

Most of us are not taught HOW to use our body/brain. Focusing is a way
of living confidently connected to your own inner knowing in relationship to
yourself and others.

We learn how to show up as our own Self-Mentor. This gives us the power to create the world within us that we would like to experience around us. A world with kindness, courage and authenticity.

Repetitive thoughts or emotions, addictive or stuck behavioral patterns, anxiety, health issues, and spiritual angst are all signs that our body is seeking our attention.

Where are you now? What is it you want to create with your life?

 

It's true that we can be free...

“When we say that we are free, and it’s true that we can be, this means that how we behave is determined by what happens within us, within the brain, and not by external factors. To be free doesn’t mean that our behavior is not determined by the laws of nature. It means that it is determined by the laws of nature acting in our brains.” ~Seven Brief Lessons on Physics by Carlo Rovelli

Sandy's Course Goals

As a Focusing Coordinator, I enjoy working with individuals and teaching groups. I offer introductory talks and classes, year-long basic skills training and an ongoing Learning Community for Mastery in Guiding Change. This ongoing community is for advanced Focusers who support others in change processes. It also can be a path to certification for you as a Focusing Professional with The International Focusing Institute.

I have at least three goals in teaching:

1- Self-empowerment in your daily life by incorporating the power of the pause into your natural way of being. In slowing down how we live, we access more of our capabilities as a human being, with numerous mental and physical longterm health benefits.

2- We are here to connect and grow. Inner Relationship Focusing training is ingenious in that we unlearn social-emotional patterns that do not work first in order to build healthier authentic relationships with ourselves and others. The benefits of a regular partnership practice develop here.

3- Understanding Gendlin's concept of crossing. I personally crossed Focusing with emerging neuroscience in developing Smartview Stories as a way to bring Focusing into schools and other educational settings. The Learning Community is intentionally designed to encourage all of us to cross Focusing concepts with other life experiences we have and then, bring what we learn to share with others in the community. We are all valued here.

I also weave passions for families, local community, health, well-being and spirituality into what I do here. I work mostly from home and enjoy a simple life, with garden time galore, pet play, and nature walks. Visit my About Sandy page for more about my personal journey.

Being You

Josh and Sandy explore the basics of Focusing here with a very cool demo session. There are great timestamps outlining valuable aspects of how our perception changes when we experience ourselves as 'living process' from Gendlin's philosophical understanding.

Check out our Substack!

We have a variety of writers sharing about Gendlin's Philosophy of Self-Awareness and ways to live a Focusing way of life.

Endorsements and a Quote From Gene...

Ann Weiser Cornell, Co-Founder of Inner Relationship Focusing

“I am so proud of the way that Sandy Jahmi Burg has deeply absorbed my teaching of Inner Relationship Focusing and made it into something dynamic and empowering to support her whole community. Sandy is warm, creative, and visionary, a person who blends the grounded and practical with the big view of possibility. She is one of the most active Focusing teachers and the Floyd community is extremely lucky to have her!”

Eugene Gendlin, Philosopher who named Focusing

“What is split off, not felt, remains the same. When it is felt, it changes. Most people don’t know this! They think that by not permitting the feeling of their negative ways they make themselves good. On the contrary, that keeps these negatives static, the same from year to year. A few moments of feeling it in your body allows it to change."

Gendlin, (1986, Pg. 178), Let Your Body Interpret Your Dreams

Cathy Pascal, LCSW & Focusing Coordinator

"Sandy loves sharing the gift of Focusing and it shows! She sparkles with passion and commitment for the work and embodies a deep confidence and understanding of the process. She also gets things done – with large doses of creativity and courage. It has been a pleasure to mentor and work alongside Sandy as well as cheer her on as she continues to cultivate and support a Focusing community. I recommend her highly as a teacher and a Focusing guide."